Dick of the week:

I met Phil a long time ago at some nudist event or other, but for some reason he didn't get on my 'radar' until this year. Of course I recognized him as a familiar face, but he didn't stand out as 'special' for some reason. Boy, was I missing an interesting guy!

He blipped onto my radar screen when he volunteered to be a model for the erotic photography workshop at a recent gay naked gathering in California. After taking some photos and interviewing him, I went back to my archives and found that I'd been photographing him all along -- for years! So the photos on his photo page include both those new photos and a link to other photos on this site which include him.

Let me begin with the first Dick of the Week question, which is: So just how big IS your dick, anyway?

I guess it's seven inches. I'd like to exaggerate and say that it's seven and a half or eight, but... it's seven. In circumference it's at the base about one and a half inches wide and tapers down. It fills a one and a half diameter tube when it's filled up.

So when you jerk off, do your fingers touch?

Yeah, definitely.

Do they overlap?

Yeah, they probably do -- I jerk off near the tip more than the base.

You mentioned a tube. Tell me about that.

I like to pump [up my dick using a vacuum tube]. I've been pumping for 5 years or more and I like getting together with friends and seeing how each person pumps up differently, seeing it grow in the tube, then taking the tube off and playing with it, and massaging, and just seeing how big it gets when you pump it up for a couple of hours. It gets very fat and hard and you jerk off. It's especially fun doing it out like this naked at gatherings, kind of being an exhibitionist, especially if other people are doing it. You synergize off each other. It gets to be a voyeuristic experience. I'll do it by myself, too, Sunday morning, drinking coffee sitting at that computer.

I can see from looking that you're cut.

Yes.

Which do you prefer in other people?

Actually I like uncut dicks, because I just like the foreskin. I like licking and playing with foreskin in the mouth. And it also pumps up nice. Foreskin adds a lot of thickness to the dick. I just think it's hot. I like it when the dick's head just pokes out, just peeks out from the foreskin. I think that's hot.

In your partners, do you prefer a big dick or a small dick?

A big dick, of course -- always a big dick. Hard for me to get stimulated looking at small dicks. Just my conditioning, I guess. Actually I kind of like dicks that just hang -- not necessarily hard. My ideal is like 7 inches soft, just hanging there. Then I can get them hard!

Do people ever come on to you just because you have a big dick?

Oh yeah.

How does that make you feel?

It pumps up the old ego. It helps a lot. It's very stimulating to have someone come on to me because they like my dick. It's very fulfilling.

Is it ever embarrassing or does it make you uncomfortable?

Never. It kind of depends on the person. If the person is obnoxious, then it's annoying. If the person's nice, no matter what they look like, it's a real turn-on. A pleasurable experience.

If someone saw you in a bar, and figured out you had a big dick, what would be the best line for him to use to get you interested in him?

Oh man, that's tough. I don't have a quip ready for that one. The best line? ... I'm speechless. "Let's just go home and stroke it." I don't know... "Let's go and see what happens."

What would be the worst line?

Now you're getting into tough stuff here. Lines are not things I'm very good at. Any line that would make me self-conscious. I don't know what that would be... anything that makes me feel like I have to perform would make it go down. Rather than one line, [I like it when the conversation] evolves, that's better for me.

I like not passive but shy guys. So if the other guy is very aggressive.... I like shy guys with big dicks so that I can be the aggressive one. That's my turn-on. Actually when you come down to it I really get more turned on being the aggressive type with someone else who's passive than if somebody comes up and is really aggressive with me. I respond by becoming passive. They make me want to slink away because I feel I have to perform. I respond best to people who are very subtle and don't make me feel as if I have to be on center stage, even though secretly I want to be on center stage. It's hard to explain. In other words, I want to be the understudy who blossoms rather than the guy who gets top billing and has to come out and start the show. I'd rather be a surprise than expected to perform.

Does a pump help you perform better?

Yeah, it kind of gets the thing pumped up, you get the visual stimulation going -- sometimes or usually it helps. It gets the atmosphere set for displaying and flopping it around and doing things with it.

Which is easier to keep hard -- a big dick or a small dick?

I would say a big dick is harder to keep hard, based on what I've seen. Small dicks seem to get hard very fast.

Do you have a boyfriend?

Yeah, several, sort of! (He laughs.) But yeah, I do have one. He's a black guy, he has a big uncut dick. Very big. Depending on the condition, six or seven inches soft.

Where'd you meet him?

At [my local gay naturist club].

So you instantly knew he had what he had.

Oh, yeah (he laughs) -- it was obvious. It's like... [he names someone else at the gathering]. He looks like he's cut, too. A NICE dick. But I have another friend in Houston who I love to see, he's uncut too, I guess he's about 8 inches, and it's really nice. He's very smooth -- it's a very smooth dick. He's just a pretty white boy. So I like all types.

Have you ever had a boyfriend with a small dick?

Yeah, I had a lover for 6 years and he had a small dick. But he had a pretty butt, and that kept me happy! He was just cute and short and petite and a small dick and a cute, tight little butt. Narrow waist, nice tight little ass.

Has your dick ever gotten you in trouble?

I went to Haulover Beach recently in Florida and I was told that I needed to be castrated because I was getting hard-ons and I was going to get everyone in trouble if it didn't go down. [He was joking.]

Another time, I was in the steam room at the gym and I was sort of playing with a guy at the gym, cute, with a very big dick, and he said THAT thing's gonna get you in trouble. I don't know. I've never been arrested, but I've certainly gotten into trouble in the sense that somebody's either wanted to fuck me or get fucked when they see it hard. Usually get fucked. It pulls me into situations not of my making.

Have you ever been almost arrested?

Yeah, at Navarre Beach, Pensacola. I'd always get a hardon -- it's patrolled a lot and I'd be in the dunes and have a hardon, because the military patrols up and down the beach. When you see the patrol, you kind of like go down on the sand -- quick. I've done three-ways and two-ways on the beach and the guy comes patrolling by -- the cute guy in his little four-wheel drive vehicle -- and we all hit the dust and drop down on your stomach and pretend you're not doing anything. You take whatever it is out of your mouth. We've had some close calls.

When you say that you had a hardon, did it just happen or did you play with yourself?

I usually play with myself, yeah. It's pretty rare any more that it kind of spontaneously gets hard.

Do you choose your underwear according to whether your dick will fit in it?

Yeah, I do. I can't wear really tight briefs. In fact, I like loose fitting boxers or semi-boxers. I like it being loose in there. My balls and my dick feel so much better and they can jangle around when I walk. I REALLY prefer that.

Right or left?

Right, I guess. It hangs on the right, even though I'm left-handed.

You obviously have danced naked.

Yes, danced naked at a bar in Florida recently. My boyfriend and I were there visiting another dedicated nudist. At this bar you get free or half-priced drinks if you take your clothes off and dance naked. So we just did. I got a real floppy hardon, beating back and forth against my stomach, any time I jumped up and down. The harder it slapped the harder it'd get. The motion felt good.

When you're dancing naked, do you think about how moving your body will move your dick? Do you do anything on purpose because of the way it's going to cause your dick to swing?

Oh, yeah, I like the way it flops up and down, between my legs and then comes up and slaps against my stomach, my abdomen. That really feels good and that makes it harder.

How old were you when you discovered that your dick was bigger than most?

Honestly I think it was quite late. I would say it would be well after I came out. Probably about 10 years ago, in my early forties. Previously I thought it was pretty typical. I'm 53. [Ed. note: Hard to believe -- see photo!] Working out always gives me a hardon. So I like working out at the gym, doing a really good 2-hour workout, even though I'm very tired. It must be very stimulating to me, in the shower, rubbing the soap on the crotch and the dick it feels sooo good -- gets it hard.

Did your father have a big dick?

I haven't seen him very often, but soft it hangs very nice, soft 5 or 6 inches. But I haven't seen him naked more than 2 or 3 times. He passed away years ago.

Was he cut or uncut?

He was cut.

What do you like the most about having a dick?

Oh God, it just feels so good hanging between my legs. Just constantly being aware that it's there. Without a dick I wouldn't feel like a human being. Can't imagine the transvestite types, or even doing drag, hiding your dick -- you lose your identity, it'd be a fate worse than death.

What do you like the most about having a big dick?

It looks great compared to the size of your body. That's why I like skinny guys with big dicks. I'm fascinated with exaggerated features. I have books of probably fake photos -- hugely hung guys -- but I suspect they use graphical techniques to get the dick hanging four inches from the knee. I don't think that's real. It tends to desensitize you to reality-sized dicks.

What do you like the least about having a big dick?

I can't think of any problem that would ever arise where a big dick would not be handy. Women even like it when you're walking down the beach, sitting with their husbands. You have a semi-hardon and you're walking along... If your doctor gives you a physical, it's always kind of nice, too. I can't think of any situation where it wouldn't be positive.

What do you like the least about having a dick?

It tends to rule my life sometimes. It's kind of hard to tear yourself away from the sensuality and go into the workaday world -- like here, having to go back to work on Wednesday. You have to submerge that part of yourself.

What you do for a living?

I'm a consulting engineer -- controls and instrumentation.

Anything else?

They're just wonderful to look at. There's infinite variety. Every dick is different, as unique as the person. I can identify the person by their dick; I don't have to look at the rest of them. It's wonderful to explore. I guess you could say it's wonderful that maybe you could see everybody's dick. If I were God, my fantasy would be to line up every man in the world, naked, and check out everyone's dick. Straight and gay. Just have a look! Maybe if I go to heaven that's what I'd be able to do. Come back as a ghost and be able to see everybody's dick. I just thought of that but it really WOULD be cool!

Thank you very much!

Let me see Phil's photos.

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