Dick of the week:

Martin

Week 49

Martin is an example of the kind of guy I ought to come on to -- but I usually don't. It's something about his boyish looks. I'm attracted, but I usually assume he's interested in guys like himself. Certainly many guys like him are mostly interested in guys like themselves. But more often than I give myself credit for, guys like Martin sometimes like the likes of me.

The reasons differ. Sometimes a guy like Martin likes to be told what to do, dominated, maybe even slightly humiliated. If a guy like that is exhibitionistic, obviously he'd get off on me "making" him do all that nasty stuff in public. And why me? Because, I've found, the word "Daddy" is scrawled all over my forehead. I think it was tattooed there as soon as I turned 35. Maybe earlier.

So what, exactly, is Martin doing in the photo above? It certainly seems as if he's sucking on something. Could be a dick, could be a thick finger, could be a quite thin forearm, in fact. It might even be a frozen, flesh-colored popsicle. The small photo on the right shows him with his lips around a pretty thick flashlight, so... could be anything.

Yeah, right! Anything.

I deliberately chose that photo because I hope it would turn Martin on. Having this image of him, handsome and very recognizable, published here where thousands of people will see it, including several of his friends, with that whatever-it-is in his mouth, damn the consequences... Could a sweet, slim, boyish but grown, every-so-slightly-furry hunk like Martin possibly be turned on by older men telling him what to do, figuring out his wonderful perversions and instructing him to show them off to the whole world? Did Martin have an erection at the very moment this photo was taken? Did he get one during the interview (which was conducted by phone)? Is an interviewer naturally put into the position of authority -- the "Daddy", if you will -- by the interviewee, who submits to these questions and tries to please the interviewer by giving good answers? What does Daddy do when he's pleased with those answers? What did Martin do?

Enquiring minds want to know. Enquiring minds will soon find out.

So let me begin with the standard Dick of the Week question: just how big IS your dick, anyway?

It is just slightly over 7 inches.

How big around?

You know I don't really know. Hmmm. I've never measured it around. I would guess... I'm soft now so I don't know. I'm trying to think.

[We are conducting this interview by phone. I have learned by now that when I do this, sometimes the guy I'm interviewing is nude -- I'd guess in about half the instances. So I decide to go after that item right away.]

Are you naked now?

Yeah. Always. Cooking dinner. The minute I get home.

So when you jerk off, can you get your hand around it?

Just about.

When you're holding it with one hand, does your thumb touch your index finger?

Yes.

How much overlap?

Maybe not quite half an inch.

So do you lose partners who think that you're too big for them?

No.

Which do you prefer in a partner: a big dick or a small dick?

Hmmm. Well, how do I answer that without sounding terrible? It's terrible of me to say a big dick.

Why?

The reason I was hesitating is that it would depend upon what mode I'm in. I'm very versatile in what I like to do. And if I'm in a bottom mode I'd prefer the person to be bigger. If I'm feeling in a top mode, the size of a person's dick doesn't matter to me.

What's the biggest dick you've ever had sex with?

That would be that guy that was at the camp [where we met]; his name was [X]. His is probably a good... at least 12 inches long and about the size of a... Looking at my hand, I have no idea how to measure circumference -- not quite as big around as a beer can, but close.

The smallest?

He was probably actually slightly over 2 inches.

Tell me more about each of those two guys.

The big guy I saw at the "Mr. Gathering" contest first. I saw that thing and I was like "Uhhhh!" And the bottom in Martin came out immediately [he chuckles] -- that was the night you were supposed to stop by our cabin. He fucked me that night. He fucked me earlier and then you dropped by. [I had indeed dropped by, having been invited there by Martin and by a roommate or two -- but the cabin was empty. Apparently everything had happened earlier.]

The small guy was a man I met here in Pittsburgh, and a nice guy -- but we really didn't hit it off, but that had very little to do with the fact that he had a small dick. We just didn't click.

Which is easier to keep hard -- a big dick or a small dick?

Hmmm. Not really having a huge dick myself I wouldn't know. I'd imagine that it just depends upon the person.

What's your dick's favorite place to go?

Do you mean like in a person? First, probably in someone's mouth.

What's your dick's favorite place to go that YOU would rather it DIDN'T go?

I don't know! [He laughs.] Nothing is coming to my mind.

What was the most surprising thing you discovered where you didn't think you liked something but your dick said it did?

That was probably the first time that I got fucked. I didn't think I was going to like it and I was rock hard when it was happening. I was a teenager -- probably around like 17.

That time I was in Memphis visiting my grandmother, and had gone to this park where I had somehow found out was the place to go -- the cruisy area. I met this man who was very handsome and who had (in my memory now) a fairly large dick, and he fucked me right there in the park. It was still daylight out, around like 7 or 8 o'clock at night. He fucked me back down along one of these trails in the woods.

Could anyone else see?

Yeah. There were people walking around and they would stop and watch and I kind of liked that. I still like that.

Why did you say yes to him if you thought you wouldn't like it?

He didn't really give me an option. He kind of made me.

So you just went along with it?

Being the good boy that I was...!

How old was he?

He was probably in his 20s, late 20s, 30s.

How did your dick react?

At very first it was pretty painful, and I was not hard at first, but the minute it stopped hurting and he started really fucking me it got rock hard. So hard that I have no memory of it ever being that hard in my life!

By "really fucking me" what do you mean?

That I had relaxed enough that he could do more than just stay there; he could move in and out.

What position was your body in?

I was standing but bent over, leaning on this big tree that had fallen over, and he was behind me, obviously.

Did he see how hard you were?

Yeah.

Did he say anything?

He reached around and was jacking me off a bit when he noticed that I was that hard.

Did you come?

Yes I did. A lot!

Do you think that being watched had anything to do with your super-hardness?

I think it did, actually. It certainly made me start to discover my exhibitionist tendencies which I have explored.

Did being kind of sort of overpowered had anything to do with it?

Definitely. I think being 17 and having this man take control of me was a big turn-on for me.

Why would that be?

It's hard to verbalize these things. There is definitely a part of me that enjoys not just being submissive but also to give up that control and have -- not really that humiliation in a way -- but that's part of it if you know what I mean.

Tell me more about the humiliation.

Well, it depends upon... it's something I play with just occasionally. I do enjoy a lot of name-calling and someone who's very aggressive and to be verbally abusive as well if I'm in that mode.

[I take the hint.] Are you hard now?

Actually, yes.

That's funny, so am I! [Please note that my hands had been 100% on my keyboard -- nowhere else.]

What got you hard?

I think reliving the scene in the woods.

What's your favorite way of USING your dick?

It would depend upon what mode I'm in. In a submissive mode I love jacking off. In a top mode I love fucking somebody, just like sliding it in and out of somebody's hole.

As a top, do you enjoy degrading or verbally abusing the bottom?

I do a little bit, but not as much as I like it done to me -- although I fuck them like I like to get fucked.

And that is?

Very hard. Hmm hmm! I like to get pounded, and I get very aggressive about it when it's happening. Very loud -- as the other people in Cabin 15 can attest to, especially when [X] was fucking me! [He chuckles.]

How are you loud?

It's like I go into another place and I become aggressive and I'm very verbal about telling them how to fuck me. Very loud -- a lot of grunting. If the person's doing it right, sounds of extreme pleasure.

It's very interesting to make myself verbalize these things!

How often do guys tell you that you have a big dick?

Pretty often. I mean, I don't get people saying it's the biggest one they ever saw, but I do get people who are pretty pleased.

I take it that from time to time guys come on to you just because you have a big dick.

If they've seen it, yeah.

So how would they see it?

Well, at places like this Gathering. Actually last week I had gone to the Motor Stop, a leather bar here in Pittsburgh. It was jockstrap night, and I wore this pair of underwear that were extremely ripped and left very little to the imagination, and got a lot of attention there. Afterwards, I went to an after-hours club in town, and was totally naked at the bar -- which was such an amazing, great experience.

How did you get naked?

A friend of mine said that it was jockstrap night there as well, and he said they don't care, you can do it, and I didn't believe him so I tested it. I took off my underwear.

I take it you haven't done anything like that before?

Not totally naked at a bar, no. And now I AM totally hard.

But you might have been totally naked somewhere else?

At a place that I wasn't supposed to be?

Yeah.

Um, actually no.

How long were you naked there?

For almost two hours.

And then you left?

And then the bar closed and I had to put my clothes on and go home.

No one took you home?

Not that night, but I had a lot of fun at the bar.

Like what?

Like I was one of 3 people who were naked, so we caused a big stir. I got a lot of people coming over and grabbing my dick and playing with it; it was great. The Gathering where we met was the first one I'd ever been to, so it's just recently been that I've felt comfortable enough to be totally naked like that. Always wanted to, but never let myself until recently.

Sounds as if this is in your future, too.

I think so!

Who were the other 2 people who were naked?

One I didn't know; I met him that night. The other was this guy named [M] who has tried to get me to come to various local gay naked events for years, so I kind of shocked him that night.

What happened to the other two guys?

They were getting played with, too. We were all the focus of a lot of attention.

How does that make you feel?

It's not a bad thing, definitely. It's fine.

How often do you get the impression that someone is interested in you ONLY because you have a big dick?

Not often. That might be something that's initial[ly attracting them], if they've seen it.

How old were you when you first realized that your dick was bigger than most other guys'?

Probably around like 17 or 18. That was around the time that I came out -- with a vengeance -- and just noticed from the guys I was with that I was usually bigger than most.

So you hadn't seen a lot of dicks before then?

I didn't have a real good frame of reference.

Not even in high school gym class?

I really honestly don't remember looking or anything, really. I have no strong memories of that. I know that's a big fantasy thing [with some gay guys], but unfortunately...

What's the most annoying way someone comes on to you -- like in a bar or at a party?

If they're forward to the point that they don't take no for an answer or don't get hints that I may not return their interest -- yet they continue.

[Note to any potential dominators out there: You can't just come on like gangbusters. You've got to wait to see who wants you to come on to them and control them.]

If someone saw you in a bar, and figured out you had a big dick, what would be the best line for him to use to get you interested in him?

Something pretty direct. That's interesting, huh! [He pauses to think about the contradiction between his last couple of responses.] Excuse me for taking time, but I want to... Everything I'm thinking of is kind of like... I don't know. Maybe if he said something he'd have to tell me what he wanted to do with it, and make it sound pretty good.

What would be the worst line?

Probably just stating the obvious, like, "Well, that's a big dick."

Are you cut or uncut?

Cut.

Which do you prefer in other men?

I've had more experience with cut men than uncut, although I wouldn't say that I have a preference.

What makes a dick pretty, or good-looking?

There are so many things it could be. Maybe an overall proportion, everything being in proportion. Including something that I wish I had, namely low, big, low-hanging balls. I find that really hot.

Do you think you have a pretty dick?

Yes, actually.

Is your father cut or uncut?

He is cut.

Does your father have a big dick?

Never seen it hard. My memory as a child I used to think it was, but I don't know.

How big?

Don't know.

Does your dick have a name?

No.

Has it EVER had a name, like when you were younger?

No.

Have you ever had the feeling that there is something wrong with your dick?

Like in how it looked? How do you mean? No, I don't think so.

When you're wearing clothes, do you keep your dick inside underpants?

Yes, most of the time I do wear underwear.

Boxers or briefs?

Briefs.

Does it hang to the left or to the right?

To the right.

How do you arrange it inside briefs as you're putting them on?

I like to have it NOT all the way up -- I have to have it sort of directly sideways.

Why don't you like it pointed up?

It's not as comfortable that way for me. I feel it better to the side, especially if I start to get hard -- I like to feel that.

How long does it take to do the arranging?

Not very long. A minute, actually. It's very quick.

Think of the period of time in the gym between when you're totally naked in the shower and when you're totally clothed and ready to walk out the front door. Let's say that that's 20 minutes. For how many of those 20 minutes is your dick naked and visible to other guys in the locker room?

Most of it. I would say probably a good 15 of those 20 minutes.

Do you do that on purpose?

Yes. Once again I've had this discovery that I like to be naked most of the time, so I like to capitalize on that whenever I can, since it's totally OK to be so in that situation.

Do you notice other guys looking at your dick?

Yes, occasionally.

Has there ever been a period in your life of one year or more during which NO ONE other than you saw your dick?

No. I don't believe so. Well, not including when I was a child. Then again, my mother would have seen it...

When is the last time someone saw your dick?

Today. I was at the gym.

When will be the next time?

Hopefully tomorrow at the gym and hopefully somewhere after. I'm supposed to have dinner with a friend and we'll probably end up at a bar afterwards, so probably yes.

You're planning on getting naked in a bar again?

Tomorrow night probably not. That was a Monday night thing.

In high school, how often did other boys see your dick?

Probably would only have been in gym class. I was pretty much a nerd in high school [he chuckles].

Could have fooled me! [He seemed very social when I met him at the Gathering.]

I was very heavy in high school -- I was a choir geek and in drama club.

Girls?

Not very often, if at all. Well, I slept with a girl in junior year in high school. So there was one time. I slept with her just twice.

And in college?

Oh, that was a different story. Probably a lot, I don't know how to put a number on it.

What was the context?

At that point probably if I had gone home with them or was having sex with them.

You were kind of promiscuous?

Yeah, I was.

And girls in college?

One more in college. I had to have one final experiment. She saw it about 3 times, if I remember correctly.

Nowadays, during an average week, how many people see your dick?

Including the gym, let's say like 30 or 40.

Of course, everybody knows that a lot of teenaged boys get hard at inappropriate times -- and in a way so that other people can see that they're hard. Did this ever happen to you?

I'm not remembering a specific incident. I'm sure it did, but nothing comes to mind.

Did anyone ever tease you or punish you when they noticed that your dick was hard?

Don't remember anything.

When you jerk off, how do you hold your dick in your hand?

I hold it with my palm on the bottom and fingers on top. Like I'm doing right now.

So you're playing with yourself?

Um hum.

[I take the hint:] Bad boy!

I'm talking about it so much I can't help it! And my curtains are open on my windows; people could walk by and see at any point.

You're on the first floor?

Right now, yes. My bedroom's on the second floor.

Have you ever TRIED to be seen by someone in the street?

Yes. Many times, actually. I remember a time in undergraduate school, the window on my apartment looked down onto the loading dock of a building. I would stand in the window and jack off all the time. People had seen and called the police and they came to my apartment.

How big were the cops' dicks? [I don't know why I couldn't resist asking this; it's a pretty tacky question. On the other hand, if I happened to guess right, I'd have looked brilliant.]

I have no idea. I was just kind of freaked out by the whole thing.

[Oh, well... next question...]

So did you stop?

I did stop that, there. Since then I have done other places. My neighbor across the street and I have an on-again off-again ... we've jacked off for each other upon occasion.

How often?

Over about 7 years, we've done this probably once or twice a year.

What happens?

I'll be in my room and happen to glance across the street and he's in his room and I can tell he's watching me so I take my clothes off and I jack off in the window and he joins me in his window.

Have you ever seen him and decided NOT to do it?

No. [He chuckles.] In fact, I'll see if he's there now.

Is he?

His lights are on but I don't see him.

Well, let me know!

[Still the good boy:] I will. I'm standing at my window in my bedroom now.

Could anyone else from the street see you?

If they looked up, yeah. Very rarely does someone look up.

Has anyone ever seen you naked that way?

There were a couple of times a couple of girls walked past, and pointed and laughed, and kept walking.

How old were they?

Teenagers.

What motion do you use?

Fairly fast, back and forth. I don't do too much on the head of my dick.

Tell me about the first time your dick ejaculated. What happened?

I think I was kind of freaked out by it; didn't know exactly what was going on . Didn't say anything about it -- in my family we never do. I waited to see if it happened again, and it did. [He chuckles.]

So what were you doing?

I was in bed and lying on my stomach when it happened.

Were you playing with yourself?

I must have been; I don't remember exactly. I remember lying on my stomach and kind of rolling or rubbing around.

Guys I interview for Dick of the Week usually are exhibitionistic -- at least a little. Think back in your life to any times when you may have fantasized or thought about showing off your dick to someone else, on purpose. How old were you the FIRST time you had a thought or a fantasy like that?

Starting around like 14, 15, yeah. I watched a neighbor working in his basement and I would stand in the window and jack off. It was a one-floor house, and he was in his basement; they had two floors. He never saw me. Or if he did, I never knew it.

Have you ever danced naked?

First time at this Gathering.

What does your dick do when you do that?

I started to get a little bit hard, actually; it was great. I never had actually been naked around that many men before at an event like that. It was a very freeing feeling.

When you're dancing naked, do you think about how moving your body will move your dick? Do you do anything on purpose because of the way it's going to cause your dick to swing?

I might have moved my hips so I could smack my dick on either side of my legs. Especially when it was starting to get a little bit hard I would do that.

What do you like the most about your dick?

I think actually I told this story to somebody just recently. I always feel as if my dick is just right. Like in Goldilocks and the 3 Bears. This one's just right!

What do you like the most about having a dick?

I love the way it feels in my hand, and feeling it between my legs. I just like the feeling of it.

Is it in your hands now?

Yes it is.

[Jackpot!] Is it hard?

Yes it is.

What do you like the most about having a big dick?

Probably the attention that I get because of it.

What do you like the least about your dick?

The fact that I have very small balls.

How small?

When I'm hard they're like flush up against my pelvis, practically, and I would love nothing more than to have really nice, low-hanging balls.

What do you like the least about having a big dick?

I can't think of a thing.

Has your dick ever gotten you in trouble?

That time when the police came could be a time.

Tell me about when the police came.

I had actually already come and I was in the shower. I heard the knock on the door and it was the police and I thought like "Fuck..." and then they went and walked over to the window to see if this was indeed the spot. Then he sat me down at my kitchen table and said that people don't appreciate this; you gotta stop it, next time we come we'll have to arrest you.

Anything else you'd like to say about dicks in general or your dick in particular?

Nothing's coming to my mind, other than: I love 'em! And the more the merrier!

Are you hard now?

[Enthusiastically:] Yeah!

How close to coming are you?

Could be very close.

Were you trying to hold off?

A little bit, yeah. I would stop jacking periodically while we were talking.

How long after we hang up?

Probably not very long. I could probably do it while we're still talking.

It's up to you. I'm not going to push you one way or the other.

[Immediately he starts breathing heavily.] I'm glad I didn't jack off yet today. Uhhhh, fuck. Ummm. Uh, yeah [pant] [pant] [pant] [pant] [very loud:] Uhhhhh, [pant] I'm very close, Uhhhh Uy, Aw, Uh, oh! ah! Fuck! Damn! [I can hear that he swallows.] Whew!

[NOTE: I did my best to transcribe accurately every sound he made. I might have missed a couple. But accuracy in these matters is very important, and it is my job as a journalist to be as accurate as possible.]

[Noticing that there's a long pause after the "whew":] Does that mean you're done?

That means I came! I tried not to make it too long, considering it's long distance and all! [pant] [pant]

Thanks for the entertainment!

Thank YOU! Whew! Hoo! I needed a little extra cardio today.

Where's all your cum?

On my stomach. I laid down on my bed. [So the loud swallow I heard did not involve his cum. Sorry, cum-swallowing fans...]

At what point?

Right as you asked me about if I had anything to say about dicks in general.

So you figured the interview was almost over?

I didn't know. Doesn't matter if it is or isn't!

Sometimes I find that guys come on to me as if they see some kind of a 'daddy' in me. They want me to tell them what to do and take control of their body. Did you want me to do that to you?

I certainly would have enjoyed that. Going back to my other side -- my bottom side. That side that likes to be taken control of. But you seemed very occupied. You were very busy! [He was talking about meeting me at the Gathering -- see below -- where I was indeed quite occupied. At this point in this interview he realizes that I might have meant right now, during the interview.] Oh, during this interview did I wish you to do that? I didn't think about it, actually.

[In fact, I didn't intend either one specifically; it was an open-ended question and either interpretation was fine.]

But you did want me to top you at the Gathering?

Yeah.

Cool! I don't usually find that out!

That's what I was talking about back there!

The next time we meet it would be fun to give that a try.

All right!

I really like fucking sweet smooth-faced fuckable boys like you.

Anyway, for the interview, thank you very much!

Wonderful!

Let me see Martin's photos.

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