Dick of the week:

Would you be surprised if I told you that BigPaul is big? I don't think so. He is very tall -- well over 6 feet -- and a higher than average percentage of that is in his dick. I met him at a party in Los Angeles, where he was introduced to me as the webmaster and chief subject of his website, www.bigpaul.com.

As it turns out, Paul is a gentle giant. I don't know him that well, but everyone at the party had nice things to say about him, most of which didn't even mention his dick. And as you'll see from the interview below, he's an amiable guy whose dick philosophy seems to be "the more the merrier" -- or "share and share alike."

Thanks, Paul!

So let me begin with the standard Dick of the Week question: just how big IS your dick, anyway?

Nine [long] by six [around].

So when you jerk off, can you get your hand around it?

Yes. I have big hands.

When you're holding it with one hand, does your thumb touch your index finger?

Yes.

How much overlap?

Not much. If I'm really hard, [using] Viagra and a cockring, it just touches.

Do you lose partners who think that you're too big for them?

Yes. Not real often.

Which do you prefer in a partner: a big dick or a small dick?

For a casual partner, a big one. For a partner-type partner, there's too many other things that are more important.

Why?

Bigger is better! Just more enjoyable. I much prefer to casually play with someone at least as big as I am.

What's the biggest dick you've ever had sex with?

Oh, that's a real good question. I don't know what size it was. It was huge -- a black guy in Hawaii. It took both hands to get around it and it was too big to suck.

The smallest?

Oh, probably about the size of your thumb.

Tell me more about those two guys.

The slut that I am, I ran into the big guy in the restroom on Queen Surf Beach. The small guy I met at a local bar here in Los Angeles.

Which is easier to keep hard -- a big dick or a small dick?

A small dick -- this is more of an opinion than anything else.

How come?

Good question. They just appear to stay really hard easier. Take less work to keep them hard.

What's your favorite way of USING your dick?

I have several. Probably have someone jack it off. Next would be being sucked. Then probably fucking someone.

Where does your dick most like to be?

On display. I love to show off and enjoy having people play with it.

What's your favorite way to show off?

The way I end up most of the time is on my webcam. I usually do not wear underwear, so it shows off through the Levi's. In warm weather I often wear shorts and it does tend to fall out periodically. I really enjoy Underwear Night at the [local bar], and tend to spend more time out of my underwear than in my underwear.

The management allows nudity there?

Hmmm.... I would hate to say yes... Technically, no.

But it has been known to happen?

Yes.

Tell me about the last time that it happened with you there.

Mostly a couple of circle jerks during the evening. When I finally shot my load it was with another guy who had a dick about the size of mine. We both came together, jacking each other off, and shot on each other.

So are you usually the one who drops his pants first, or do you wait for another guy?

I usually wait. Believe it or not, I'm shy!

What happens?

A small group is forming in the dark corner with one guy in the center. You don't see anybody's hands; they're all inside the circle. There's a lot of movement going on, with others standing outside reaching in periodically. As people come and go from the circle you see them buttoning up their pants and other people closing up the gaps.

So if management were looking in that direction, they wouldn't see any dicks -- they'd have to go over and stick their nose into the circle to see what was going on?

Correct.

I take it that from time to time guys come on to you just because you have a big dick.

Yes.

How does that make you feel?

Very good. Being in L.A., I have an image of myself of not being the most desirable person in the world -- being a little heavier, graying hair, my age, I don't live in West Hollywood, I don't drive a BMW. I'm not what the typical person in West Hollywood is looking for.

So when someone comes on to you who's that type, you like it?

Yes.

Is the West Hollywood type your favorite type?

No, not necessarily. I don't have a true favorite. As far as just a recreational sex type person, I prefer someone considerably younger, decent body, and a nice dick, and wants to play. As far as any kind of relationship, I prefer someone closer to my own age, yet in very good physical condition -- which is very hard to find. In that case dick size is not all that important; it's more the person.

How often do you get the impression that someone is interested in you ONLY because you have a big dick?

A lot.

How can you tell?

The fact that it's a one-time type thing wherever we happen to meet; comments that I get from the chatroom on my website.

How old were you when you first realized that your dick was bigger than most other guys'?

Junior high. In gym class. Comments from other people. One day -- it was a very large junior high, we'd take attendance by sitting on numbers around the edge of the wall, and the person next to me noticed the bulge in my sweatsuit and commented, are you hard? And I said no. And he said it looks big.

And how did you feel?

Embarrassed but good.

How does it fall when it falls out?

Usually if I squat down and get something off a bottom shelf, the end of it will fall out the leg. Or getting in and out of the car a lot of times, the pants kind of slide up as you slide out of the car and it's visible.

When you stand up, does it go back in by itself or do you have to push it back in?

Usually I pull the shorts down.

How many seconds is it visible?

Usually not very many. It depends who's around to see it.

So give me a minimum and a maximum time.

As quickly as possible, 1 or 2 seconds. The maximum would be maybe 5 or 10 seconds. Enough time that I know the other person saw it.

Is it always a man [who sees it]?

Yes. I have had sex with women, and if a woman wants to see it I'll show her, in my chatroom for example, I'll put on little shows. But I'll also be chatting about their boyfriend and find out how big he is, what he does to her.

What's the most interesting thing a woman has told you along those lines?

Usually just describing the way he fucks her.

What's the most annoying way someone comes on to you -- like in a bar or at a party?

Someone that I'm really not interested in, usually because they're either older than I am or in some way obnoxious about their personality, and can't take the hint that I'm really not interested.

If someone saw you in a bar, and figured out you had a big dick, what would be the best line for him to use to get you interested in him?

Smile and say hello to me.

What would be the worst line?

I'm not sure there would be a worst line! It would depend on the person.

Are you cut or uncut?

I'm cut but I'm restored, so I look uncut when I'm soft. When I'm hard, as I jack off, the skin slides back and forth across the head, but it won't stay covered.

Which foreskin restoration method did you use?

T-tape. [Derek, another Dick of the Week, has used this method.]

How long did it take?

I've been working on it about 3 years. I don't do it real regularly. But it has made a tremendous difference. Now I can jack off for hours at a time without getting sore and I don't need any lube.

Has it increased or decreased your attractiveness to other guys?

I think it's definitely increased.

Do you have any idea of the reason?

That I'm uncut. It's still enough of a rarity in our culture that it offers something more to play with.

Which do you prefer in other men?

Uncut. I enjoy playing with the foreskin.

What do you like to do with it?

There are little tricks to jacking off a person who's uncut that really turn him on; I enjoy doing that. And I enjoy docking.

What would one of those little tricks be?

Just gently sliding the skin back and forth across the skin without actually touching the head with my fingers.

What makes a dick pretty, or good-looking?

I'm not sure I've ever seen an ugly one!

Is your father cut or uncut?

He was cut.

Does your father have a big dick?

Yes.

How big?

He died when I was in junior high, so from what I can remember I would guess he was as big as I am.

Does your dick have a name?

No.

Has it EVER had a name, like when you were younger?

No.

Have you ever had the feeling that there is something wrong with your dick?

No. Except I wish it would come more often.

How often DOES it come?

Usually about once a day.

Boxers or briefs, if you have to?

It depends upon what I'm wearing, and what's clean.

If you had an unlimited supply, what would you prefer?

Again it would depend on why. For a doctor's appointment where they need a little bit more modesty I will wear briefs. If it's just that I'm wearing light-colored dress slacks I'll usually wear boxers.

Does it hang to the left or to the right?

To the left.

When you do put on briefs, do you have to reach in and arrange your dick inside them?

Yes. Most of the briefs I have are the bikini type, so they fit pretty tight, so it's a matter of arranging the dick and the balls. I don't want them too far down, because then I tend to sit on them and that gets uncomfortable.

So typically your dick would be pointing to the left inside the briefs, and your balls would be where?

On each side of it.

Think of the period of time in the gym between when you're totally naked in the shower and when you're totally clothed and ready to walk out the front door. Let's say that that's 20 minutes. For how many of those 20 minutes is your dick naked and visible to other guys in the locker room?

As much of it as is possible. Until just recently I was going to a gay gym. It also had a steam room and a sauna. It could be a matter of an hour between the end of my workout and the time I have clothes back on.

What order of dressing?

Socks, shirt, pants, shoes.

Have you noticed anyone looking at your dick while you were getting dressed?

Yes. Depending on what other people are around, I will take longer arranging other pieces of clothing so they have a longer time to look. And I may periodically touch my dick or pull on it or play with it a little bit to the point that I may actually get hard.

Has there ever been a period in your life of one year or more during which NO ONE other than you saw your dick?

No.

When is the last time someone saw your dick?

About 10 o'clock this morning on my website.

So you had a little show?

Yes. Possibly when I got out of the car running errands, but I don't think anyone saw me. I wasn't hiding, though.

When will be the next time?

Probably not until later this evening, when I change to go out to dinner. People on my website will be able to see me. I'm somewhat laid up; the doctors will be doing another hip replacement, so I'm on crutches right now so it takes longer. The webcam is on 24 hours a day; people can watch me sleep all night naked.

Do you sleep with a sheet on top of you?

No. They see me naked tossing and turning.

In high school, how often did other boys see your dick?

Being very shy and very conscious of it, since I got hard-ons easily, in gym class would be about it.

Girls?

Never dated.

And in college?

I discovered a restroom in the basement of one of the campus buildings that had glory holes and I learned what glory holes were for. So every chance I could, I went to the restroom. But no women.

Nowadays, during an average week, not counting the website, how many people see your dick?

That varies drastically from one or two friends dropping by to -- on a weekend, in a nudist group, then maybe 30 or 40 will see it.

Of course, everybody knows that a lot of teenaged boys get hard at inappropriate times -- and in a way so that other people can see that they're hard. Did this ever happen to you? Did anyone ever tease you or punish you when they noticed that your dick was hard?

I got teased in gym class, in the shower. I would just kind of ignore it and get dressed as quickly as possible.

Tell me about the first time your dick ejaculated. What happened?

I was very surprised. I learned to jack off very late; I was in high school. The way I found out about it was a friend ended up playing strip poker with me one afternoon and we then played with our dicks a little bit afterwards, and he mentioned that if you rubbed it like this it would get even harder, but he didn't mention ejaculating. Later that night I went to take a shower and I decided to see just how hard it would get. And I was very, very surprised!

So what did you do?

I did it again the next day!

Guys I interview for Dick of the Week usually are exhibitionistic -- at least a little. Think back in your life to any times when you may have fantasized or thought about showing off your dick to someone else, on purpose. How old were you the FIRST time you had a thought or a fantasy like that?

Oh, the first time I ever showed it off to anybody per se was in grade school, with a neighbor girl. She wanted to play doctor.

Tell me the first time you showed it off to a boy.

That would have been junior high. We just showed it off to each other and touched each other; that was about it.

Have you ever danced naked?

Yes.

What does your dick do when you do that?

It gets semi-hard and bounces around a lot.

What was the first time you danced naked?

Just a few years ago. In a nudist group.

When you're dancing naked, do you think about how moving your body will move your dick? Do you do anything on purpose because of the way it's going to cause your dick to swing?

Sometimes I work the hips a little more.

What do you like the most about your dick?

It's a nice size.

What do you like the most about having a dick?

It's great to play with!

-- or a big dick?

Even better to play with!

What do you like the least about your dick?

I wish it was easier to get it hard and keep it hard.

What do you like the least about having a big dick?

I'm not sure there is a least thing. Some people have a lot of trouble sucking it. I do not like having teeth dig into it.

Has your dick ever gotten you in trouble?

Yes. I tend to like to have it played with even when I was in a relationship. It did not like to stay in my pants. There was some friction in the relationship. I learned that there was no way I can have a sexually monogamous relationship.

Thank you very much.

Thank you!

Don't forget to visit BigPaul's site at www.bigpaul.com. Generally it's a G-rated site, but the link to the cam leads to the X-rated material. As Paul says, "I believe the Internet was meant to be free."

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